True Love versus Physical Attraction/ How true love is different then physical attraction?
What is Love?
Love the word used for passion,
obsession, romance, attraction and feeling for others is very pious. Since
young to old, all are crazy in love affairs. At first the love enters through
eyes and directly knocks at heart. So your heart beat spontaneously increases.
Accordingly you enter into world of fantasy. Consequently negligence comes to
you like avoid friends, family, own profession, forget duty etc. that shows you
are in love. Then you would like to make many changes in you. Lovers (each of
couple) would like to do excel in their behaviour, communication, and
appearance. For which they wear attractive costumes, use highly scented
perfumes, apply quality full deodorant etc. only to allure each other they do
it. Hence they start communicating through letter writing or what’s up messaging,
or face book chat or email chat and many other possible media as well. These
all reflects in changing status photos in social media page. At the end the
lovers like share kisses between them and finds opportunity to have physical
relation soon. This is all about to-days love.
What is physical attraction?
In this modern world 99% loves are
based on physical attraction. Mostly boys and girls like to exhibit their body
wearing scanty dress as much as possible. The boys lust for girls untied shiny
hair, rosy lips, glossy chicks, blue eyes, lioness waist, thin and tall figure.
Whereas girls like boys’ tall figure, strong muscles, well educated, richness,
and smartness. Lovers die for each other if they get their dream counterpart.
The main objective of such love is to attain each other.
What is true love?
The lovers show sympathy, sacrifice,
honesty, affection and respect for each other. Such love is very difficult to
find now a days. Infect, such true lovers never show off in relationship
secret. So they don’t cross the limit of humanity. Even love affairs are pious
deed for them. Kissing, hugging each other and physical relation is condemning
them before marriage. Romeo and Juliet, Heer and Ranjha, Laila and Majnu; those
lovers couple had pious love for each other. Above and all they consider love
is god’s blessing which we should not dirt. Such love begets piece and
consistency of mind.
What are the signs of modern love?
Who says old aged people don’t fall in
love, actually they fall in love but nobody doubts on them. According to above fact,
youths must fall in love at any age in any place in any condition. When one
falls in love for first time, he or se prompts to help each other, thinking
about each other, trying to come close each other. They searching opportunity
to get together, meeting in secret, having too much day dream, promising itself
to do a lot for him or her. Also they keep awake whole night, praising each
other, whole night messing with pillow and cushion. If they can’t meet or see their
lover they become sad. Lovers consider the love is superior then god.
What are the side effects of love?
Common affair may destroy you
completely, if you don’t know your lover properly. Many leave own home in love
while many brings their love into home. Some do murders in love whereas many
commit suicide in love. For illustration, we can take the matter of abortion of
unmarried girls. The educated fools don’t worry about family for their
selfishness. They even insult their parents and other family members to succeed
in illegal love. Illogical love never sustains and last for no long. It
breadths out very soon, if something is done against parents’ consent. This
life is very precious. Hence don’t waste it for a shortest pleasure. Human life
is the result of many virtue and good deeds. So I would like to tell you,
beware of lust and boost true love in mind.
Opinion
True love is sacred but physical attraction is perishable pleasure only. physical relation is just like prostitution and it can not be sign of love. so true love is the best love ever.